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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Why Are Boundaries So Important in Building Awesome Relationships?
Establishing boundaries is not just a rulebook; it's the foundation of strong and healthy personal relationships. Boundaries communicate...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20255 min read


The Science of Love: What is the Gottman Method, and How Can It Strengthen Relationships?
In today's fast-paced world, relationships can often feel like a balancing act. Many couples struggle to connect emotionally due to daily...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20255 min read


The Power of Vulnerability: Navigating Emotional Resilience as an LGBTQ Individual
In the journey of life, vulnerability is often mistaken for weakness. But for LGBTQ individuals, embracing vulnerability can be a pathway...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20254 min read


Unshackling the Chains of Guilt and Shame: Navigating Recovery with Self-Compassion
Recovery can feel like a tough journey, often overshadowed by heavy emotions. Guilt and shame stand out as significant hurdles that many...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20253 min read


How to Stop Overthinking and Chill: Unconventional Ways to Break Free from the Mental Hamster Wheel
In today’s fast-paced world, many people find themselves caught in the trap of overthinking. Whether it's replaying an awkward...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20255 min read


Say Goodbye to Self-Doubt: Knocking Out Irrational Beliefs
In personal growth, we often face challenges that feel overwhelming. Among these, irrational beliefs can be especially tricky. These...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20254 min read


Chill Out: How REBT Techniques Can Help You Manage Anxiety in the Chaos
Anxiety can feel like a storm, leaving you overwhelmed and craving calm amid the chaos. Daily pressures, looming deadlines, and...

Brian Sharp
Feb 22, 20255 min read


Overthinking and Avoiding: The Sneaky Link Between Anxiety and Procrastination
Anxiety and procrastination often go hand in hand, creating a challenging cycle for many. When confronted with tasks that trigger...

Brian Sharp
Feb 20, 20254 min read


Are You Letting Irrational Beliefs Hold You Back? How Disputing Them Can Lead to a Healthier, Happier Life
Have you ever felt trapped by negative thoughts? Those persistent beliefs that you’re not capable or that failure is just around the...

Brian Sharp
Feb 19, 20254 min read


Exploring Accessible Online Therapy Options for LGBTQ Residents in Connecticut, Texas, Florida, and the UK
Mental health discussions have gained significant attention in recent years, especially when it comes to the unique challenges facing...

Brian Sharp
Feb 19, 20255 min read


Therapy: A Beginner's Guide to Overcoming the Unknown with a Little Bit of Humor
Entering therapy can feel like stepping into a completely new world. For many, it brings a mix of excitement, hope, and a healthy dose of...

Brian Sharp
Feb 16, 20254 min read


Breaking Free from External Validation: The Illusion of Needing Approval from Everyone
Have you ever felt that your worth hinges on others' approval? This common struggle runs deep in our human nature. The desire to be liked...

Brian Sharp
Feb 15, 20255 min read


Is "Musturbation" Holding You Back? How to Overcome Dr. Albert Ellis' Three "Musts" for Greater Peace of Mind
Understanding our thoughts and behaviors can be a challenging journey. One significant concept in this exploration is Dr. Albert Ellis's...

Brian Sharp
Feb 15, 20254 min read


The Silent Killers of Relationships: Understanding and Overcoming Gottman's 'Four Horsemen'
In every relationship, challenges can arise that threaten connection and satisfaction. One of the most harmful patterns identified by...

Brian Sharp
Feb 15, 20254 min read


Are You Sabotaging Your Relationship? The Dangerous Effects of Negative Sentiment Override Explained
Negative sentiment override may sound technical, but its impact on romantic relationships is profound. As a gay therapist trained in the...

Brian Sharp
Feb 15, 20254 min read


Is Your 'Awfulizing' Making You Miserable? How Albert Ellis' Thoughts Can Help You Navigate Life's Challenges
Life's challenges can often feel overwhelming, especially during tough times marked by anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or...

Brian Sharp
Feb 12, 20254 min read


"Why Marriages Succeed or Fail"--Why this Relationship Book is the Secret to a Happier, Healthier Love Life
In today's world, relationships are often discussed more openly, especially within the LGBT community. Finding the right resources to...

Brian Sharp
Feb 12, 20254 min read


Can a Gay Therapist Help Me Even Though I'm Straight? A Surprising Answer from a Licensed Professional
Therapy can feel like a lifeline—a safe space where you can unpack your thoughts, emotions, and hurdles. However, if you're straight and...

Brian Sharp
Feb 8, 20254 min read


Why Therapy with Insurance Can be a Total Headache - Exploring the Downside of Using Insurance for Therapy
When it comes to therapy, many people often assume that using their insurance is the best way to make mental health care affordable....

Brian Sharp
Feb 8, 20254 min read


Can Hypnosis Really Help You Sleep? The Surprising Reason REBT Skills Might Be Your Best Bet
Sleep is essential for our health. Yet, millions of people struggle to get enough restful sleep. Among the various techniques promising...

Brian Sharp
Feb 7, 20254 min read
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