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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


I Hate People: Recognizing When Alone Time is Essential for Mental Wellbeing
In our hectic world, feeling overwhelmed by social interactions is becoming increasingly common. Whether at work, in crowded places, or...
gfertitta
Jun 9, 20254 min read


Understanding Healthy Detachment: Why It Matters and How to Begin
Healthy detachment is a topic that may resonate with many people, yet it often remains unclear. In our fast-paced world filled with...
gfertitta
Jun 9, 20254 min read


Why Do I Doubt Myself So Much and How Therapy Can Turn It Around
Doubting oneself is an experience shared by many people, often surfacing when important decisions or new adventures arise. This feeling...
gfertitta
Jun 9, 20255 min read


Understanding the Differences Between Cognitive Behavioral Therapy REBT and Psychoanalysis
Many people, who've never been to therapy, picture the classic psychoanalysis scene: lying on a couch and sharing deep secrets with a...

Brian Sharp
Jun 8, 20255 min read


How Long Does Xanax Really Stay in Your System and What You Should Know
Xanax, the brand name for alprazolam, is a medication frequently prescribed to help manage anxiety and panic disorders. Many individuals...

Brian Sharp
Jun 8, 20254 min read


Stop Searching for a BetterHelp Discount Code, and Discover What You're Missing in Online Therapy
In today’s fast-paced world, mental health has never been more important. With the growing acceptance of online therapy, getting help is...

Brian Sharp
Jun 8, 20254 min read


The Hidden Dangers of Mixing Alcohol and Benzodiazepines like Xanax
Mixing alcohol and benzodiazepines like Xanax is a risky practice that can have severe health consequences. Despite the common use of...

Brian Sharp
Jun 7, 20253 min read


Why is it Called Gaslighting, Anyway, and How Can You Spot It in Your Relationships?
Gaslighting is a term that frequently appears in discussions about relationships and mental health, and for good reason. Its implications...

Brian Sharp
Jun 7, 20255 min read


Why There's No Official Test for Borderline Personality Disorder and Why Proper Diagnosis (Not Self-Diagnosis) is so Important
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a complicated mental health issue that can leave both patients and healthcare providers...

Brian Sharp
Jun 7, 20254 min read


Disputing Irrational Beliefs: Crushing Musturbation and Awfulizing in Everyday Life
Engaging Insights on Irrational Beliefs Our thoughts and beliefs shape our daily experiences. Sometimes, they can lead us to emotional...

Brian Sharp
Jun 7, 20254 min read


Recognizing Emotional Abuse in Relationships A Comprehensive Checklist and Safe Exit Strategies
Emotional abuse is often silent but widespread, occurring in many relationships without clear indications. Unlike physical abuse, which...

Brian Sharp
Jun 7, 20254 min read


Understanding Porn Addiction: Effective Resources and the Therapeutic Role Through a Cognitive-Behavioral Lens
In today's fast-paced digital world, pornography has become instantly accessible, leading many individuals to an unhealthy reliance on...

Brian Sharp
Jun 6, 20254 min read


Why People-Pleasing Might Be Tied to Past Trauma and Why It's More Harmful Than You Think
People-pleasing can seem harmless. It often feels like a way to keep the peace and make others happy. However, this behavior can stem...

Brian Sharp
Jun 6, 20254 min read


Exploring the Best Books on Codependency and the Role of Therapy in Healing
Understanding codependency and its effects is a key step toward personal growth and healthier relationships. Many people find that...

Brian Sharp
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Rise and Shine: Embrace Your Mornings with Spiritual Meditation Quotes
In our hectic lives, mornings can feel overwhelming. Many of us rush through the early hours without taking a moment to breathe. But what...
gfertitta
Jun 5, 20255 min read


Rediscovering Self: A Journey from Feeling Invisible to Finding Your Voice
In today's fast-paced society, feelings of invisibility can strike anyone. You might have moments where your thoughts and contributions...
gfertitta
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Healing the Unseen Impact: The Importance of Childhood Trauma Therapy in Adulthood
Childhood trauma can greatly influence a person's life, often extending its effects into adulthood. Many adults find that unresolved pain...
gfertitta
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Understanding Enmeshment Trauma and the Path to Healing Through Therapy
Enmeshment trauma is a term that captures a profound issue within family dynamics, yet it often goes unnoticed. This trauma affects...
gfertitta
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Boldly Defining Your Space: The Art of Setting Boundaries with Parents
Setting boundaries with parents can be a challenging yet transformative experience. While it may feel uncomfortable to create distance...
gfertitta
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Healing After Loss: Understanding Grief and the Role of Therapy
Grief is a universal experience—a complex emotional response to loss that affects everyone in unique ways. Whether you have lost a loved...
gfertitta
Jun 4, 20254 min read
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