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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Uncovering the Destructive Power of 'Musturbation' on Your Mental Health: Breaking Free from Absolute Thinking
In today's fast-paced world, the pressure to meet expectations can feel overwhelming. While aiming for excellence can be inspiring, it...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Stop "Shoulding" on Yourself and Others: How REBT Can Transform Your Perspective
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I should really be more productive," or "They should know better"? If so, you're not alone! Many...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


How to Navigate the Illusion of Fortune Telling and Mind Reading in Therapy: A Guide to Overcoming Cognitive Distortions
Cognitive distortions like fortune telling and mind reading often lead to heightened anxiety and stress for many individuals. These...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Wait, Did Jesus' Disciples Practice Mediumship?! Debunking the Myths and Misconceptions
As a spirit medium, I often meet skepticism about what I do. Many label it as sinful or evil, rejecting it without understanding its...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20253 min read


Is Your Way of Coping Making Things Worse? The Surprising Connection Between Avoidance and Escape Behaviors and Exacerbating Depression and Anxiety
When life gets tough, it’s natural to want to escape. Whether pouring yourself a glass of wine after a long day, binge-watching shows, or...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20255 min read


Why Scheduling Sex Dates Could Actually Strengthen Your Relationship (According to a Therapist with Training in the Gottman Method)
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, many couples find their romantic connection dwindling. Work, household chores, and kids can leave...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Keeping it Chill: Why I Keep Mumbo Jumbo Out of My Mediumship Sessions
Mediumship offers a fascinating way to connect with the spirit world. While many enter hoping for answers, it's essential to establish a...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


How I Went from Having Been Raised in a Pentecostal Family to Working as an Evidential Medium: My Unexpected Journey
Growing up in a Pentecostal family shaped my early beliefs about the world. From a young age, I learned that anything remotely...

Brian Sharp
Jan 3, 20255 min read


Zero F**ks Given: Embracing Unconditional Self-Acceptance for Ultimate Mental Health Freedom
Breaking Free from the Need for Approval In today's fast-paced world, we are inundated with opinions from friends, family, and social...

Brian Sharp
Jan 3, 20254 min read


Who Needs an Inner Child When You Can Embrace Your Inner Bitch?
Have you ever felt like life is weighing you down and that your past is holding you back? Therapists often discuss the "inner child" as a...

Brian Sharp
Dec 31, 20244 min read


Enough with the Bullsh*t: How Therapy Helped Me Find My Voice and Set Boundaries
As a child who stuttered, I spent years feeling small and often bullied. My voice, instead of being a tool for expression, became a...

Brian Sharp
Dec 27, 20245 min read


Why I Don't Do Vent Sessions Often Seen with Different Therapy Styles: The Power of Direct Therapy & Humor for Fast Results
Therapy is not just about talking; it’s about growth and understanding. In the world of mental health, various approaches exist, each...

Brian Sharp
Dec 24, 20244 min read


Love Never Dies -- Mediumship is Evidence of It.
I unexpectedly lost my great-grandmother on New Year's Day 2002--only a week after I had been with her for Christmas.

Brian Sharp
May 9, 20242 min read


Depression and Anxiety - Why They Can Feel So Hopeless and What to Do About Them
As an LGBTQ+ counselor one of the most frequent complaints I hear from clients is that they have been struggling "for years" with depression

Brian Sharp
Jan 15, 20242 min read


Infidelity: Why It Happens and What to Do After an Affair
Betrayal is such a terrible experience in a relationship--especially a betrayal like infidelity.

Brian Sharp
May 2, 20234 min read


From an LGBTQ Therapist - Mental Health: Embracing an Attitude of Gratitude
As a LGBTQ mental health professional I often find that clients enter therapy with me almost fixated on what's not going well in their...

Brian Sharp
Jun 8, 20223 min read


How to Stop Being Insecure in a Relationship
What causes emotional insecurity and how do we stop being insecure in a relationship, that means so much to us?

Brian Sharp
Apr 18, 20223 min read
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