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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Why Sweeping Things Under the Rug Isn't Doing Your Relationship Any Favors: A Gay Therapist's Take
Navigating a relationship can sometimes feel like balancing on a tightrope. One small misstep might seem catastrophic, leading some...

Brian Sharp
Jan 174 min read
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Unpacking Fear: How a Gay Therapist Relates 'Airplane' Scene to Our Catastrophizing Tendencies
Fear can be a powerful force in our lives. It can creep in unnoticed, twisting our thoughts and actions, often leading us into a spiral...

Brian Sharp
Jan 173 min read
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Hey, It's OK to Set Boundaries with Your Loved Ones - A Gay Therapist's Advice
In a world that often demands more than we can give, it's common to feel overwhelmed, especially in the LGBTQ+ community. Many people...

Brian Sharp
Jan 174 min read
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Seriously, Chill: How Humorous Songs Helped Albert Ellis' Clients Put Life Problems into Perspective
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it’s all too easy to become overwhelmed by our problems. Work stress, relationship...

Brian Sharp
Jan 164 min read
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How Can REBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Help Navigate a New HIV Diagnosis: Insights from a Gay Therapist
As a gay therapist I know all too well that receiving an HIV diagnosis can be overwhelming and life-changing. The emotions that often...

Brian Sharp
Jan 164 min read
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Exploring the Precontemplation Stage of Change: Understanding its Impact on Mental Health and Addictive Behaviors
The precontemplation stage of change is a crucial point in the journey toward behavior modification and recovery. It particularly affects...

Brian Sharp
Jan 164 min read
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REBT vs CBT: Why REBT Might Just Cut to the Chase: Trading Therapy Vent Sessions for a Direct Approach
In today’s fast-paced world, many people seek mental well-being solutions that are efficient and effective. Traditional therapy has long...

Brian Sharp
Jan 145 min read
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Are You a People-Pleaser? Here's How to Stop People Pleasing, Break Free and Be Authentic
In a society that cherishes connection and approval, it's common to prioritize others’ needs over our own. However, when accommodating...

Brian Sharp
Jan 145 min read
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Understanding HIV+: A Gay Therapist's Guide to Practicing Safe Sex with Your Partner
Navigating a relationship where one partner is HIV positive can feel overwhelming. However, gaining the right knowledge can transform...

Brian Sharp
Jan 144 min read
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Embracing Love: A Gay Therapist's Perspective on the Vitality of the NoH8 Campaign in Today's Political Landscape
In a world often divided by hate, the NoH8 campaign serves as a powerful reminder of love's strength. Initiated in 2008 to combat the...

Brian Sharp
Jan 134 min read
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Why It Might Not Be the Answer to Your Relationship's Problems: Open Relationship Rules and Rules for Polyamory Are Often Broken
Relationships can be tricky. Even with good communication, many couples still find themselves facing challenges. For some, polyamory or...

Brian Sharp
Jan 125 min read
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Uncovering the Destructive Power of 'Musturbation' on Your Mental Health: Breaking Free from Absolute Thinking
In today's fast-paced world, the pressure to meet expectations can feel overwhelming. While aiming for excellence can be inspiring, it...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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Stop "Shoulding" on Yourself and Others: How REBT Can Transform Your Perspective
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I should really be more productive," or "They should know better"? If so, you're not alone! Many...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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How to Navigate the Illusion of Fortune Telling and Mind Reading in Therapy: A Guide to Overcoming Cognitive Distortions
Cognitive distortions like fortune telling and mind reading often lead to heightened anxiety and stress for many individuals. These...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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Is Ignoring Bad Behavior the Secret to Changing It? The Surprising Truth About Unintended Reinforcement.
We've all faced tough situations, whether it’s a child throwing a tantrum in a store or a friend struggling with addiction. Our instinct...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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Is Your Way of Coping Making Things Worse? The Surprising Connection Between Avoidance and Escape Behaviors and Exacerbating Depression and Anxiety
When life gets tough, it’s natural to want to escape. Whether pouring yourself a glass of wine after a long day, binge-watching shows, or...

Brian Sharp
Jan 125 min read
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Why Scheduling Sex Dates Could Actually Strengthen Your Relationship (According to a Therapist with Training in the Gottman Method)
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, many couples find their romantic connection dwindling. Work, household chores, and kids can leave...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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Attachment 101: Spotting Secure Attachment Style Traits in Your Tinder Date
In the world of dating, understanding someone's attachment style can unlock important insights into how they behave and relate to others....

Brian Sharp
Jan 125 min read
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Is 'Playing It Cool' a Sign of Dismissive Attachment Style? The Surprising Truth
In the intricate landscape of relationships, how we connect with others can often be traced back to our attachment styles. One style that...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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Is Your Attachment Style Sabotaging Your Relationships? A Therapist's Take on Fearful Avoidant Attachment
Understanding how we connect with others can be a challenging journey. One significant factor influencing our relationships is our...

Brian Sharp
Jan 124 min read
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