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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


How Can a Gay Therapist Expertly Guide Sero-Discordant Couples to Navigate Relationships with Confidence?
Navigating relationships can be tricky, especially for sero-discordant couples, where one partner is HIV-positive and the other is...

Brian Sharp
Jan 20, 20254 min read


How to prepare for a Trump Presidency with radical acceptance and no 'awfulizing' or 'musturbation'
To all of my LGBTQ friends and therapy clients, we survived four challenging years of a Trump presidency. While the road ahead may seem...

Brian Sharp
Jan 20, 20254 min read


The Secret Key to LGBTQ Client Therapy: How Assertive Communication is the Game Changer
As a therapist working primarily with LGBTQ clients, I have encountered a wide range of issues, including depression, anxiety, substance...

Brian Sharp
Jan 19, 20254 min read


"Why is My Husband Yelling at Me all the Time and Trying to Control What I Do?" Is Your Relationship Toxic? How to Recognize and Break Free from Manipulative Behavior
Are You in a Toxic Relationship? Have you ever felt uneasy about your husband's anger or his need to control your social life? If so, you...

Brian Sharp
Jan 19, 20255 min read


"Why Is My Husband Yelling at Me?" A Gay Therapist's Insights on Why Yelling and Criticism Won't Solve Anything in Relationships
In moments of high tension, it's easy to resort to yelling at your partner, believing it might bring some urgency to a situation....

Brian Sharp
Jan 19, 20254 min read


Why does couples therapy vary so much? A gay therapist's take on the Gottman Method
Couples therapy has become a vital resource for many looking to navigate relationship challenges. Yet, if you've tried therapy and found...

Brian Sharp
Jan 19, 20255 min read


Why Sweeping Things Under the Rug Isn't Doing Your Relationship Any Favors: A Gay Therapist's Take
Navigating a relationship can sometimes feel like balancing on a tightrope. One small misstep might seem catastrophic, leading some...

Brian Sharp
Jan 17, 20254 min read


Unpacking Fear: How a Gay Therapist Relates 'Airplane' Scene to Our Catastrophizing Tendencies
Fear can be a powerful force in our lives. It can creep in unnoticed, twisting our thoughts and actions, often leading us into a spiral...

Brian Sharp
Jan 17, 20253 min read


Hey, It's OK to Set Boundaries with Your Loved Ones - A Gay Therapist's Advice
In a world that often demands more than we can give, it's common to feel overwhelmed, especially in the LGBTQ+ community. Many people...

Brian Sharp
Jan 17, 20254 min read


Seriously, Chill: How Humorous Songs Helped Albert Ellis' Clients Put Life Problems into Perspective
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it’s all too easy to become overwhelmed by our problems. Work stress, relationship...

Brian Sharp
Jan 16, 20254 min read


How Can REBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Help Navigate a New HIV Diagnosis: Insights from a Gay Therapist
As a gay therapist I know all too well that receiving an HIV diagnosis can be overwhelming and life-changing. The emotions that often...

Brian Sharp
Jan 16, 20254 min read


Exploring the Precontemplation Stage of Change: Understanding its Impact on Mental Health and Addictive Behaviors
The precontemplation stage of change is a crucial point in the journey toward behavior modification and recovery. It particularly affects...

Brian Sharp
Jan 16, 20254 min read


REBT vs CBT: Why REBT Might Just Cut to the Chase: Trading Therapy Vent Sessions for a Direct Approach
In today’s fast-paced world, many people seek mental well-being solutions that are efficient and effective. Traditional therapy has long...

Brian Sharp
Jan 14, 20255 min read


Are You a People-Pleaser? Here's How to Stop People Pleasing, Break Free and Be Authentic
In a society that cherishes connection and approval, it's common to prioritize others’ needs over our own. However, when accommodating...

Brian Sharp
Jan 14, 20255 min read


Understanding HIV+: A Gay Therapist's Guide to Practicing Safe Sex with Your Partner
Navigating a relationship where one partner is HIV positive can feel overwhelming. However, gaining the right knowledge can transform...

Brian Sharp
Jan 14, 20254 min read


Embracing Love: A Gay Therapist's Perspective on the Vitality of the NoH8 Campaign in Today's Political Landscape
In a world often divided by hate, the NoH8 campaign serves as a powerful reminder of love's strength. Initiated in 2008 to combat the...

Brian Sharp
Jan 13, 20254 min read


Why It Might Not Be the Answer to Your Relationship's Problems: Open Relationship Rules and Rules for Polyamory Are Often Broken
Relationships can be tricky. Even with good communication, many couples still find themselves facing challenges. For some, polyamory or...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20255 min read


Uncovering the Destructive Power of 'Musturbation' on Your Mental Health: Breaking Free from Absolute Thinking
In today's fast-paced world, the pressure to meet expectations can feel overwhelming. While aiming for excellence can be inspiring, it...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Stop "Shoulding" on Yourself and Others: How REBT Can Transform Your Perspective
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I should really be more productive," or "They should know better"? If so, you're not alone! Many...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read


How to Navigate the Illusion of Fortune Telling and Mind Reading in Therapy: A Guide to Overcoming Cognitive Distortions
Cognitive distortions like fortune telling and mind reading often lead to heightened anxiety and stress for many individuals. These...

Brian Sharp
Jan 12, 20254 min read
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