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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Hey, are you 'shoulding' all over yourself? An REBT therapist spills the beans on how to stop the awfulizing cycle
Opening Thoughts If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a loop of self-criticism or frustration about what others should be doing, you...

Brian Sharp
Jan 105 min read
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Who Gives a F*ck? A Gay Therapist's Guide to Radical Acceptance for Better Mental Health
In a world that often feels out of control, we are all searching for ways to manage stress and anxiety. The noise around us can be...

Brian Sharp
Jan 64 min read
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Anger Management: Why Keeping It Bottled Up Doesn't Cut It
Managing emotions is not easy, and for many people, anger can be particularly tough to handle. As a therapist who primarily works with...

Brian Sharp
Jan 64 min read
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Is It Panic Attacks or Something More? Why a Gay Therapist Urges Professional Evaluation Over Self-Diagnosis
When you're feeling overwhelmed, it’s crucial to understand what you're experiencing. Many people in the LGBTQ+ community find themselves...

Brian Sharp
Jan 64 min read
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How to Recognize and Safely Leave an Emotionally Abusive Relationship: Insights from a Gay Therapist
Emotionally abusive relationships can feel like a trap that disguises itself as love. Gradually, they chip away at self-worth and mental...

Brian Sharp
Jan 65 min read
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How My Rescue Dog Katie Became My Unlikely Therapy Companion
When I first laid eyes on Katie at the local animal shelter, I never imagined how drastically my life would change. She was a scruffy...

Brian Sharp
Jan 55 min read
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Can a Gay Therapist Provide Straight Talk? How an LGBTQ+ Perspective Can Benefit Hetero Relationships
In recent years, society has undergone a notable transformation in how we view relationships. Therapy can be a vital resource for...

Brian Sharp
Jan 55 min read
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LGBT Couples Therapy: Why open relationships and polyamory might not be the fairy tale you're hoping for
Open relationships and polyamory have become buzzworthy topics in recent years. Many people view these arrangements as exciting...

Brian Sharp
Jan 55 min read
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Who Needs a Fancy Degree? Finding Worth and Value as a Gay Therapist Without a PhD
Before I stepped into the world of therapy, I had big dreams. I wanted to be a respected psychologist—someone with a PhD, numerous...

Brian Sharp
Jan 35 min read
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Is a Safety Plan Really Necessary? Uncovering the Benefits and Purpose Behind Your Therapist's Request
When your therapist hands you a safety plan, it might feel overwhelming. But think of it as a vital tool designed specifically for you....

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Who Says Therapy Can't Be Fun? Embracing the Quirky, Effective Methods of an Eclectic Therapist
In the world of therapy, many methods claim to help individuals handle their mental health challenges. Among these, eclectic therapy...

Brian Sharp
Jan 35 min read
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Zero F**ks Given: Embracing Unconditional Self-Acceptance for Ultimate Mental Health Freedom
Breaking Free from the Need for Approval In today's fast-paced world, we are inundated with opinions from friends, family, and social...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Why REBT Outshines the Competition: A Closer Look at the Unmatched Benefits of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is making waves in the world of psychotherapy. Developed by Albert Ellis in the 1950s, this...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Unveiling the Decision: The Professional Protocol of Discharging Clients from Online Therapy
In the field of mental health, the relationship between therapists and clients is built on trust and respect. However, this bond can be...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Uncovering the True Root of Addiction: Why It's Not the Problem, But a Symptom
Addiction can feel like a heavy weight, filled with shame and isolation. Many think of addiction solely in terms of substance abuse....

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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The Risks of Mixing Antidepressants and Alcohol: A Professional's Perspective
Navigating mental health treatment can be daunting, especially when it comes to antidepressants. Many individuals talk about their...

Brian Sharp
Jan 33 min read
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Uncovering the Rapid Effectiveness of Therapy with REBT: Dismantling "Should" Statements, "Musturbation," and "Awfulizing" in Resilience-Building Mindset
Engaging Insights on Therapy with REBT Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a transformative approach that helps individuals...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Always On: How Pornography Can Impact Your Relationship Without You Even Realizing It
Grasping the Reality of Pornography's Influence In today's digital age, pornography is more accessible than ever before. With just a few...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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Unfiltered Therapy: Embracing the Power of Humor in Therapy
Have you ever walked into a therapy session, ready to tackle serious issues, only to be greeted by a therapist armed with crude jokes? It...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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When is it Appropriate for a Therapist to Break Confidentiality? Navigating Trust and Privacy with Your LGBTQ Counselor
Therapy is often viewed as a safe space where individuals can express their thoughts and feelings without judgment. Confidentiality is...

Brian Sharp
Jan 34 min read
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